By Guest Blogger, Angela Copperwheat
A new school year is just around the corner. It is a time that can be exciting and a little nerve racking for both you and your preschooler. If this is your first time, you have prepared yourself for this day. You have done the research. You visited many schools, asked your questions, and found the school that best fits your family. If this is not your first year, you know the school, and what to expect. You are ready.
So now, what should you do to make sure your child is ready? The first thing you can do is talk it up and be positive. Talk often with your child about school and how much fun it will be. You know your child. Point out the things he will do at school that will be the most fun for him. Refer to the teacher by name. If there are other children in the class that your child knows, talk about that. Talk, talk, talk.
Second, take your child to visit the school. See if it is possible to bring the child into the school a couple of times. Most schools have visitation days right before school starts. Be sure you attend the visitation day. If you think that your child will have a difficult transition into preschool, discuss this with the director and try to arrange some extra visitation days. Some schools open their playgrounds to the public if school is not in session. If this is the case, you could go play on the school playground.
Buy your child’s new school supplies together. Even the little ones get excited over their new backpack or lunch box. If they go with you to the store and get to pick out their new accessories and supplies they will be much more excited to use them.
Now that you have done the prep work with your preschooler, make sure that you are ready for the first day. If you think there may be some tears, discuss this with the teacher. Decide together the best exit strategy. More often than not, the teacher will tell you to be quick. Do not linger at drop off time. Come in, help your child hang up his backpack and say goodbye. You may think that if you stay for a while he will transition better, but this is usually not the case. No matter how long you stay, there will still be a transition when you leave. It is better if you don’t draw it out. Go in knowing your child is in capable hands and the school will call you if they need you.
Preschool is one of the greatest gifts you can give both you and your child! Your child needs to learn to interact with his peers and other adults on his own. And you need time on your own to be you, not mom. So relax, enjoy this time, and know that in the end, preschool is a great experience for the whole family!
Angela Copperwheat is the Director of Carmel Presbyterian Weekday School. You can find Carmel Presbyterian at 2048 Carmel Rd., Charlotte, NC 28226, 704-364-5713 and email: firstname.lastname@example.org.